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  • Best Day of My Life

    Best Day of My Life

    Best Day of My Life

    A best day in my life happened this way. At age 23, I was married to Janet Chester, had two children, and farming, doing what I wanted to do. Happy with my wife, I loved my sons and family. Ranching and farming tends to be very cyclical and seasonal. You do the same thing at the same time every year.

    Then, Janet on her own, and eventually me alongside, decided, “You know, there’s something more to life.” It wasn’t a complaint. Horrible things weren’t happening to me. But I wondered about the “more.” And I didn’t know what that might be. We didn’t come out of homes where the Lord got talked about much. Janet’s single parent mom worked awfully hard to support five children. And I grew up in a wonderful family where mom and dad loved each other and my sister and me. But we didn’t talk about the Lord. And I knew nothing about the Scriptures.

    Since we knew many people found help in the Bible, we began to read one. The first three nights after I returned home from work and got the boys to bed, we read the Preface to King James. And then we got to Genesis and through the whole Old Testament that summer, an hour each night. Some of it we understood and some we didn’t. But we found God was real in these lives of saints and sinners. We knew He wasn’t real in ours.

    Best Day Next Step

    About the first week in September, we said to each other, “Now that we’re in the New Testament, we should go to church. Maybe someone can help us understand everything.” So, we attended the most convenient church, right down the road. We showed up one Sunday morning sitting in the back, trying to hide, because we felt out of place. And what do you know? They announced their “Rally Days” and the start of home Bible studies. In fact, the next night a home hosted a Navigator’s study, “Introduction To Christ.” So, we signed up. Attending included the host couple and the teacher, all mature Christians, and me and Janet.

    Before long, we discovered we needed to accept Christ as Lord and Savior. And I remember the best day event and the place. I was in the field farming, trying to irrigate. A shovel over my shoulder, I walked along some furrows on my own, making sure the water ran through. And I kept thinking about all the new things we’d been learning about Jesus. I meditated on the verse in John 1:12, “To all who received him, to all who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God.” And I thought, “That’s me. I want to become a child of God. I want to receive Christ as my Lord and Savior.”

    Best Day Moment of Truth

    Then, I said out loud, “Lord, I don’t know very much. I don’t know very much about you. But I believe you are who you say you are. And I believe you did what you said you did. Also, I believe you’re going to do what you said you’re going to do. But I know I don’t deserve it and I’m sinful. However, you died on the cross for me and I want to know you as Lord and Savior.”

    I found out later that Janet made the same commitment a few days before. That turned out to be a best day for both of us.

    My perspective on everything changed, on being a man, a husband, and father. As a rancher and citizen. My views altered on who I was, as well as the world and the universe. All of a sudden, the God who maybe existed was the God with me every day and each hour. The love I only heard about I now experienced in my heart and soul. That’s still on my Best Day List.

    Stephen Bly

    Copyright 2010

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  • Keep Up the Corners

    Keep Up the Corners

    Keep Up the Cattle Drive Corners with Stephen Bly Audio Podcast

    An old-time cowboy scratched out some notes in a journal as he worked on a big cattle drive from south Texas to the Kansas railheads in the 1870s. Often he mentioned how the trail boss kept after them to “keep up the corners.” A search through the book finally uncovered what that might mean.

    Keeping Up Corners 
    This phrase meant to keep the cattle drive herd moving at a reasonable and sustainable pace. The strongest cattle did not march over or just trot off and leave the weaker ones. The cowboys let the cattle spread out enough so not to get overheated but bunched up enough not to widen to an uncontainable size.

    KEEP UP THE CATTLE DRIVE CORNERS

    It was important that the entire herd grazed at a speed and in a manner that brought them together. So, when the boss shouted, “Keep up the corners!”, it was a signal to tighten control. Make sure the cows moved in a way best for all concerned.

    Now it Seems to Me 

    From time to time someone ought to shout, “Tighten up the corners,” to you and me concerning our families. And according to the Bible, dads have a mighty important role.

    “Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord” (Ephesians 6:4).

    Part of that responsibility includes making sure the whole family grows spiritually. Understand your wife’s spiritual condition and make sure she has plenty of opportunity for worship and prayer, study and fellowship. She needs quiet times as well as the freedom to use her gifts, talents, and ministries given her from God.

    Keeping Up with the Kids Too 

    The same is also true for each of the children. The next step in the spiritual life of your three-year-old will be different than your eighteen-year-old. But they both need to continue to grow in the knowledge of the Lord and become the person He created them to be.

    We usually assume that if we’re moving along in the spiritual journey, the rest of the family will automatically go at our pace. Or if we drag our feet, they’ll stay back with us. Maybe we need from time to time to hear the Big Boss holler, “Keep up those corners!” Or its spiritual equivalent. And what do you think that might be?

    Stephen Bly

    Circa 1997

    Cattle Drive Image by Rizwan Gabru from Pixabay